“secondhand dysphoria” is obviously an awful concept and transmeds suck but it’s also just extremely funny to me
imagine some guy coming up to you in public and being like “hi….uh your voice is really feminine, dude. can you like…..not talk anymore? it’s giving me secondhand dysphoria :/”
“When people talk about gender-affirming surgery using words like “mutilation,” that’s not very nice. Is that how you think about people who’ve had surgery for other things? It’s a disgust reaction, and I do not take disgust into account as a legitimate point of discourse. I don’t have to entertain it and I’m not going to. It’s a waste of everybody’s time, it’s knee-jerk, it’s not grounded in reality, and it’s not useful. And it’s a squeamishness about medical intervention. I think the idea of making legislative or cultural decisions in and around [that] is laughable. Your squeamishness is not what the world turns on; it doesn’t matter.”
Liv Hewson in Teen Vogue (italics added by me for emphasis)
